Posted 18 April 2007 - 05:12 PM
I just wanted to update all on the situation of Jon, the divorce etc.
Really, since two weeks ago, nothing much has changed except me. Jon and R have found a new home to purchase and they were successful, she's still pregnant (confirmed 7-weeks).
I've been able to take time out to reflect on how things are and I am in a much better place, almost back to the old/new me again. I feel more accepting of how things are and whilst I know it's too soon, I've been able to emotionally distance myself from the situation and not let it bother me anymore.
That being said, things with Garth (boyfriend) are going very, very well. He has been there for me throughout this whole ordeal and while he doesn't understand how I feel (as in, he's never been in this situation), he acknowledges that it's a shock and he's been a pillar of strength for me. He makes me laugh, smile and at the moment I have this real inner peace with how things are, it's a nice feeling to finally have with someone.
On the Logan front things there are going well. My little boy has started talking (as in words, not just sounds). Now, in the car, he'll point out the window and go "Car!", then proceed to make 'broom, broom' noises...it's very cute, except when he thinks it's great to say it to every car he sees, in peak-hour, that's not soo cool. He's also running/walking everywhere - no more crawling for my little man! He still walks like he's tipsy which at times is rather amusing, but he walks and he looks just so darn cute when he does
So all in all, I am much better. I've had a lot of support from a lot of lovely women here and I cannot even begin to show my appreciation for that. The check-up SMS'es, phone calls etc has really made me realise that people care about me a hell of a lot more than I thought; it's a nice feeling to have and I can only hope that one day I can show the same in return.
I will continue to be a happy person. To be honest, I think this last month has been the worst in recovering from the marriage break-up. I know in my heart that had this occurred later down the track, I wouldn't have reacted the way I did, but it all came so suddenly and it knocked me for six, as I am sure it did a lot of people. Even the anger has subsided; I still hold some resentment towards Jon and the situation, but I don't see that changing in the near future, it's just a default feeling I have for him now.
But I am fine and I am happy and I sincerely thank those for your continued support.
Posted 18 April 2007 - 06:04 PM
Well done on getting this place renamed too!
A & B ~ 1st November 2008
Mini Princess A ~ 5th Jan 2010
Mini Princess H ~ 10th Feb 2014
Posted 18 April 2007 - 06:12 PM
I'm hoping for a very very bright future for the three of you.
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Posted 18 April 2007 - 06:45 PM
Thanks so much for working hard to get this new thread happening too, i think i'll be in here alot
Posted 18 April 2007 - 08:29 PM
Logan must be so cute when he is walking. If ever you want to talk im always here.
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Posted 18 April 2007 - 11:19 PM
A & B<br><br>24th March 2007<br><br>
Posted 19 April 2007 - 06:30 PM
And Logan sounds like he's being so damn cute!! - keep us updated its great to hear!
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Posted 19 April 2007 - 07:35 PM
Can't wait to see you next weekend!
I've decided next weekend is going to be my end-of-marriage celebrations!!
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Posted 24 April 2007 - 09:48 PM
God damn!!! I can't believe what you've had to deal with! I had no idea hun. I haven't checked on here in ages!!
This whole thing makes me admire you so much more hun. You are truly amazing.
I'm glad things are going well with Garth (even though he can't get you Pink tickets or free chocolate or wine lol). It's about time something went right for you. I'm really happy for you.
I can't believe Logan is talking and awalking and running now! My little boyfriend is all growed up!
Anyway, good on you hun for being such a strong, amazing, gorgeous woman!!
Love you lots xoxoxo
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