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Posted 18 April 2007 - 05:12 PM

I've been waiting so patiently for this section; it feels so good knowing now that us single women have somewhere to call home amongst this forum wub.gif

I just wanted to update all on the situation of Jon, the divorce etc.

Really, since two weeks ago, nothing much has changed except me. Jon and R have found a new home to purchase and they were successful, she's still pregnant (confirmed 7-weeks).

I've been able to take time out to reflect on how things are and I am in a much better place, almost back to the old/new me again. I feel more accepting of how things are and whilst I know it's too soon, I've been able to emotionally distance myself from the situation and not let it bother me anymore.

That being said, things with Garth (boyfriend) are going very, very well. He has been there for me throughout this whole ordeal and while he doesn't understand how I feel (as in, he's never been in this situation), he acknowledges that it's a shock and he's been a pillar of strength for me. He makes me laugh, smile and at the moment I have this real inner peace with how things are, it's a nice feeling to finally have with someone.

On the Logan front things there are going well. My little boy has started talking (as in words, not just sounds). Now, in the car, he'll point out the window and go "Car!", then proceed to make 'broom, broom' noises...it's very cute, except when he thinks it's great to say it to every car he sees, in peak-hour, that's not soo cool. He's also running/walking everywhere - no more crawling for my little man! He still walks like he's tipsy which at times is rather amusing, but he walks and he looks just so darn cute when he does wub.gif

So all in all, I am much better. I've had a lot of support from a lot of lovely women here and I cannot even begin to show my appreciation for that. The check-up SMS'es, phone calls etc has really made me realise that people care about me a hell of a lot more than I thought; it's a nice feeling to have and I can only hope that one day I can show the same in return.

I will continue to be a happy person. To be honest, I think this last month has been the worst in recovering from the marriage break-up. I know in my heart that had this occurred later down the track, I wouldn't have reacted the way I did, but it all came so suddenly and it knocked me for six, as I am sure it did a lot of people. Even the anger has subsided; I still hold some resentment towards Jon and the situation, but I don't see that changing in the near future, it's just a default feeling I have for him now.

But I am fine and I am happy and I sincerely thank those for your continued support.

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Megan xx

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Posted 18 April 2007 - 06:04 PM

Glad to hear your doing much better Megan smile.gif

Well done on getting this place renamed too!

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Posted 18 April 2007 - 06:12 PM

Megan, I'm glad to hear that you're getting there.

I'm hoping for a very very bright future for the three of you. biggrin.gif
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Posted 18 April 2007 - 06:45 PM

Im glad youre feeling better about things Megan, you deserve it smile.gif I really do find your strength inspiring.

Thanks so much for working hard to get this new thread happening too, i think i'll be in here alot biggrin.gif
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Posted 18 April 2007 - 08:29 PM

Im glad to hear that you are doing well Megan.

Logan must be so cute when he is walking. If ever you want to talk im always here.

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Posted 18 April 2007 - 11:19 PM

I'm so glad things are starting to look up for you hun. You have so much courage... xx
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Posted 19 April 2007 - 06:30 PM

Thanks for the update Megan - its good to hear you are sounding positive, and happier! Garth sounds like a great guy!

And Logan sounds like he's being so damn cute!! - keep us updated its great to hear!

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Posted 19 April 2007 - 07:21 PM

Really glad to hear you sounding so positive! Can't wait to see you next weekend!

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Posted 19 April 2007 - 07:35 PM

QUOTE(RachelleB @ Apr 19 2007, 07:21 PM) View Post

Can't wait to see you next weekend!


I've decided next weekend is going to be my end-of-marriage celebrations!!

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Posted 19 April 2007 - 07:36 PM

Woooo hoooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 19 April 2007 - 08:40 PM

I officially have a baby sitter - we're going out!!

WOOT!

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Posted 20 April 2007 - 06:21 PM

smile.gif very good to read that things are on the up and up - woo hoo for you
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Posted 24 April 2007 - 09:48 PM

wink.gif Holy S**t!!!!! Why did you not mention this in any of our sms convos missy?!?!?!?!
God damn!!! I can't believe what you've had to deal with! I had no idea hun. I haven't checked on here in ages!!

This whole thing makes me admire you so much more hun. You are truly amazing.

I'm glad things are going well with Garth (even though he can't get you Pink tickets or free chocolate or wine lol). It's about time something went right for you. I'm really happy for you.

I can't believe Logan is talking and awalking and running now! My little boyfriend is all growed up! wink.gif

Anyway, good on you hun for being such a strong, amazing, gorgeous woman!!
Love you lots xoxoxo
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