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#1 almost there...

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Posted 26 February 2007 - 04:35 PM

as you may have heard we got a ring on the weekend. so after we got it we went round to FMIL's place to tell the good news. they were all very happy for us, lots of hugs and kisses etc...as you would expect.

while we were there H2B called his sister who lives interstate and is planning a wedding in oct (she was witht the guy for 7 yrs before he poped the questions...which she apparently was not happy about waiting that long). anyway he rang and told her the good news, after a few minutes I was talking to her. She sounded a bit blaze and after saying congrats started going on about her wedding plans, which I totally dont mind about...She's excited as she should be! then she got on the phone to my FMIL.

Anyway...when she got off the phone she wasnt very happy...she told us that FSIL was saying things like "they have only been togther just over a year, we've been together 7" & "you see them together, are they really good together?" & "is the ring better than mine? how many carats? whats it worth?" etcetc.

H2B was obviously a not too happy about her reaction. It doesnt bother me too much, and I wont let it, it's not like I have to see her all the time anyway. But I feel sorry for H2B sad.gif Why can't she just be happy for him?

Whats even worse is there is much bif between her and H2B's father..and H2B was saying she might do the whole "i'm not going if he is" thing... sad.gif That makes me mad bocz I love my FFIL!

Sorry it's lengthy, just needed to get that off my chest!
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Posted 03 March 2007 - 07:05 PM

ooh, thats pretty sad. hopefully after she's had time to get used the the idea she'll cool down.

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Posted 03 March 2007 - 07:41 PM

QUOTE(almost mrs-to-be @ Feb 26 2007, 04:35 PM) View Post

Anyway...when she got off the phone she wasnt very happy...she told us that FSIL was saying things like "they have only been togther just over a year, we've been together 7" & "you see them together, are they really good together?" & "is the ring better than mine? how many carats? whats it worth?" etcetc.


TBH i think it would have been smarter for you FMIL to not say those things to you and just kept them to herself. Your poor H2B, i wouldnt want to hear my brother saying that about me. Seems like a jealous spiteful bitch!! Hope she doesnt continue carrying on with he bull and just gets over herself.
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Posted 03 March 2007 - 08:02 PM

I agree with MrsObey.

I would maybe justs stay out of her way (FSIL), which sounds like it could be easy if she is interstate.

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Posted 04 March 2007 - 03:15 PM

Yea I do kind of wish that FMIL didn't say anything but oh well unsure.gif

She does seem like the jealous kind of girl and always plays the "poor me" story...although I have only met her once. I totally agree about her maybe being insecure as she lives interstate...they are always saying that she never used to act like this before she moved.

It just makes me sad for FH, as I've said it doesn't really effect me too much...just want him to be happy sad.gif
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Posted 05 March 2007 - 08:47 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this, I agree with the other girls thought that maybe you could suggest FMIL doesn't repeat the comments, especially if they upset your fiancee. It doesn't seem like she will say these comments directly to you, luckily.

Thank god she lives interstate. My SIL was very jealous when we got engaged as she had been with her boyfriend for 4 years, unlike us. She was jealous the entire way through our wedding preparation and as she was a BM it made things a little difficult. ( I had many a rant to fellow I-doer's)

Unfortunately that is just the way she is, she was jealous when we bought our house, etc etc...I still can't understand why for the life of me, but it's the way she is and I just have to live with it.

Luckily, you have a wonderful FH who loves you. That is all that matters. Please don't let her upset you.
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Posted 05 March 2007 - 03:39 PM


Sorry to hear your FSIL is being painful. Mine has also displayed some selfish behaviour. It sounds like she is jealous of you guys and doesn't like it when she is not the centre of attention. One lucky thing is that she is interstate. I suggest that your H2B asks his mum not to tell you about the negative comments made by FSIL. You are better off not to know about them. Also if she is difficult about whether she is going to come to the wedding or not then I would just let it run off your back. Let your FMIL deal with it, if FSIL is so selfish that she can't put aside any differences she has with people for her brothers wedding day then she can miss out and she will only have herself to blame. Sorry if that sounded harsh but I have decided with my FSIL if she wants to sit in the corner at the wedding and not talk to anyone like she did at the engagement then that is her choice and I am not going to let if worry me.

I think you and H2B should enjoy being engaged and not worry about FSIL. Feel free to vent to me, I will be posting plenty of things in the future about my FSIL. Enjoy your engagement it is such a great time biggrin.gif


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Posted 11 March 2007 - 09:24 PM

Wow, her jealousy showed itself early! Good luck with it through the planning time smile.gif




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