QUOTE(Kir @ Oct 16 2006, 08:35 PM)
No problem - you actually did me a favor as this spurred h2b to call his parents and ask why the only photo from our engagement party they had printed and framed was of him and his sister? And NOT me and him?
His mother cried and said it didn't occur to her
And that she doesn't even know me as she only sees me once every 6 months!
Here's a tip - be nice to me and I'll actually want to come and visit!!!
She then played the 'diabetes' card and said she had to go and have a blood test next week... boo hoo!!! (Sorry if that seems insensitive, but I am sick of hearing about all her different (minor) illnesses every time we see them!).
Get your h2b to stand up for you now, or he'll never do it!!
No thats not insensitive at all - sometime you just get over it all! I get the "When I've passed on" (cause his mum is quite an old mum) - Darling your not going anywhere - only the good die young!
I had a chat with H2B last night and he has said that he has already spoken to him Mum on Sunday while they were playing golf (yes he plays golf with his Mummy every weekend). He apparently told her that she can NOT speak to me like that under no circumstances! and that i am here to stay - so get used to it. YIP PEE! although after he told her this she told him about the surprise birthday party I was organising for him! I guess if thats the worst that she can do - I will survive!
Thanks every one for your advise. this is the first time I have left a comment on here. I have been stressing out SO much over so many things and bottling it all up. This has really helped!