~POST ~ WEDDING ~ BLUES ~
Posted 16 February 2004 - 11:56 AM
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Posted 16 February 2004 - 12:01 PM
Being Andrew's wife is the most fantastic thing ever! (to me at least )
But I would have to say that it is such a HUGE thing to plan a wedding, that you think, talk, dream, and fantasise about the one day for so long. Then it is gone. So I wouldn't say I felt "sad" so much as at a loose end for a while, until I got back into the swing of "normal" life without planning a wedding... starting bike riding and rallying again, that sort of thing!
Posted 16 February 2004 - 12:19 PM
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Posted 16 February 2004 - 12:32 PM
Although I do still go back and watch the video from time to time....
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Posted 16 February 2004 - 01:49 PM
Even now I have moments where I feel that I'm undirected... even though I've started a business, but have done very little about it in the last few months.
Planning our wedding was a big part of my life for a year, then it was over..
There's post natal depression, why not post marital depression??
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Posted 16 February 2004 - 02:02 PM
I think the way to stop this happening so badly is to make sure once the wedding is over you have something that you can go on with again either craft or something around the house etc.
I found that scrapbooking and other crafts helped me as now I have something to occupy my time
But yes it is very real no matter how much you love your hubby I have a feeling most brides feel the post wedding blues to some degree
Posted 16 February 2004 - 03:39 PM
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Posted 16 February 2004 - 08:20 PM
I'm so relieved that it's over and everything turned out better than I could have imagined.
I mean I loved the whole wedding planning thing, but towards the end Steve and I were just so stressed we almost broke up. I thank goodness that I didn't do anything rash and call the whole thing off. We're not going on our honeymoon until the end of July so I still have that to plan and we're in the middle of building a house so maybe I'm still too busy to get depressed.
I'm just so happy to be married I'm enjoying being a wife.
But, I only got married just over a week ago so it could still be a bit too soon.
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Posted 16 February 2004 - 08:25 PM
It also wasn't long after we got married that we got onto planning for building our house & then building it & now TTC, so I guess we've always got something in planning. We're always constantly thinking of things to do with the garden & house
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Posted 17 February 2004 - 05:09 PM
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE being married to my Hubby, I wouldn't change it for anything, and I can't wait to see what our future holds, but we were planning our wedding for about 16 months, so to go from all that planning, celebrating it in one day, and then it all being over, you can sometimes feel a bit lost without it.
But like I said before, we have other wonderful things to look forward to, together, so that's pretty exciting too!
Posted 18 February 2004 - 07:04 PM
But in saying that i miss the whole "im going to be a bride" feeling. I miss trying on my dress etc.
But in planning preps, i surely dont miss that part!
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