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#136 Gretch

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 04:59 PM

I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your husband. x

#137 goodgirl

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 05:18 PM

I'm so sorry. I can't believe you have to go through such heartache. It's really not fair. sad.gif

#138 Maxi

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 05:30 PM

I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts. x
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#139 anica789

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 05:57 PM

Thank you xx I'm feeling pretty much everything and nothing right now. Surgery tomorrow. Left tube is being removed and right will be clipped off.
Married 19/9/09
IVFs 1-5 BFN
IVF 6- Mar 2013- Cycling with my beautiful egg donor angel ♥
BFP- ectopic. Ruptured- tubes removed 19/4/13.
IVF 7-8 FETs- BFN
IVF 9- double FET- BFP. Scan at 8+5 showed no HBs. Two more angels. D&C 16/9
IVF 10 FET- BFN
IVF 11 FET- BFN
IVF 12- FET- BFN


#140 nephthys

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 06:46 PM

QUOTE(anica789 @ Apr 18 2013, 05:57 PM) View Post

Thank you xx I'm feeling pretty much everything and nothing right now. Surgery tomorrow. Left tube is being removed and right will be clipped off.

If you should try again, what will having your tubes removed/clipped mean for future IVF? Please don't answer if this question is too personal or painful right now.

#141 la_jeune_mariée

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 06:57 PM

Oh Anica. sad.gif I'm so sorry to hear this. Absolutely heartbreaking sad.gif I hope tomorrow goes as well as it can and that you have much love and support around you.

#142 anica789

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 07:14 PM

Thanks everyone.

Nep I don't need my tubes at all for IVF. Hopefully this will improve the chances of one of our frosties implanting in the correct place.
Married 19/9/09
IVFs 1-5 BFN
IVF 6- Mar 2013- Cycling with my beautiful egg donor angel ♥
BFP- ectopic. Ruptured- tubes removed 19/4/13.
IVF 7-8 FETs- BFN
IVF 9- double FET- BFP. Scan at 8+5 showed no HBs. Two more angels. D&C 16/9
IVF 10 FET- BFN
IVF 11 FET- BFN
IVF 12- FET- BFN


#143 L's Angel

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Posted 18 April 2013 - 07:47 PM

I'm so very sorry,

Will be thinking of you and your DH. sad.gif

#144 Porthos

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Posted 19 April 2013 - 09:13 PM

So completely and utterly unfair sad.gif It's stories like this that make me think the whole freaking world is a God damned bastard.

Thinking of you and your DH and wishing this was different for you.

Huge hugs xx

#145 Woodland

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Posted 20 April 2013 - 08:04 AM

Im so very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. Its so unfair and very sad.

#146 anica789

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Posted 20 April 2013 - 01:02 PM

Thanks. Surgery over, my tube had already ruptured so it took a bit longer than anticipated but other than that (and the problems the anesthetist had getting a vein dry.gif ) it went smoothly.
Left tube has been completely removed and the right clipped to reduce the chances of this happening again.
Married 19/9/09
IVFs 1-5 BFN
IVF 6- Mar 2013- Cycling with my beautiful egg donor angel ♥
BFP- ectopic. Ruptured- tubes removed 19/4/13.
IVF 7-8 FETs- BFN
IVF 9- double FET- BFP. Scan at 8+5 showed no HBs. Two more angels. D&C 16/9
IVF 10 FET- BFN
IVF 11 FET- BFN
IVF 12- FET- BFN


#147 Tigridia

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Posted 20 April 2013 - 03:56 PM

I'm glad the surgery went well. Hopefully you recover physically as quickly as possible and can get over the emotional trauma in time.

I've had some people close to me go through ectopics and it can be tough. Hang in there and hopefully the next cycle will have the perfect outcome.

#148 HelsBels

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Posted 20 April 2013 - 08:09 PM

I'm glad it all went ok and you can now start the process of healing physically and emotionally. It's good that they've taken precautions so that you hopefully never have to go through this again. Do you know when you'll be able to try again with one of your frosties?

#149 anica789

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Posted 20 April 2013 - 11:42 PM

Thanks guys xx

HB mt FS said after a cycle off I can do a FET. I had a D&C during the procedures yesterday so it may take up to 6 weeks for AF to arrive.
Married 19/9/09
IVFs 1-5 BFN
IVF 6- Mar 2013- Cycling with my beautiful egg donor angel ♥
BFP- ectopic. Ruptured- tubes removed 19/4/13.
IVF 7-8 FETs- BFN
IVF 9- double FET- BFP. Scan at 8+5 showed no HBs. Two more angels. D&C 16/9
IVF 10 FET- BFN
IVF 11 FET- BFN
IVF 12- FET- BFN


#150 squeaza

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Posted 21 April 2013 - 12:55 AM

Oh no Anica - I haven't been on for a few days so only just saw this.

I'm in tears for you - look after yourselves. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. Life isn't fair at all sad.gif




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