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#1 Maudie



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Posted 09 June 2012 - 06:35 PM


Please allow me to sort of "think out loud" on this topic. FH and I are getting married in April next year. We've been together since 2003 and we've built a house together, studied degrees, done a bit of travelling and had our ups and downs in the relationship and now we're really enjoying each other in such a lovely way.

Lately I've been thinking about babies (I'm 28) and FH has too. We've kinda said we want to get married first, and we have a couple of trips we want to take. So we were thinking of starting a family in a few years - I really want to have a 30 birthday party without children. There's also a problem of getting ongoing employment - I've been teaching for three years and I'm still on contracts.

Anyway, last night we were at a birthday party and someone had a baby there (I don't even know who this person was!). Next thing I know I'm holing the baby and playing with it... she was very cute. FH leans over and says, "Want one?" I said yes. Then he told me about a dream he had... about us us a baby. wub.gif

It's a very exciting time... wedding, travels and talking about babies. Just wanted to share this gushy happy feeling.

Thanks for reading.

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#2 VictoriaK


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Posted 10 June 2012 - 04:50 PM

wow it is a big year for you

Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials and your decisions on starting a family. For what it is worth, i understand the not wanting children for your 30th, im 30 next year and i didnt want to be pregnant for it, lucky it turns out i wont be, our 3rd bub will arrive just 2 months before the big party. We wanted to be young parents, i wanted to have all my children before i hit 30 and at this stage will get my wish. You have to do whats best for you and if you both agree on a timefrmae, it makes life a lot easier. Good luck with everything
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