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#1 Woodland

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Posted 03 December 2011 - 06:33 AM

Hi guys,
My 2.5 year old DS is toilet trained for wees and poos but only if he has nothing on, if I put undies on him he wets them. Im not sure how to tackle this? Do you think it will magically happen that he realises he needs to take undies down? Now that I know he can use the toilet or potty should I be putting undies on him more at home? Initially I was using undies but he only "got it" once I'd ditched them and had him nude from the waist down. I feel that we can't really move on as I have to put pull ups on him whenever we go out.
How long did you still keep them in nappies for going out / naps after they were basicaly toilet trained?
I'd appreciate any advice.
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#2 mel_in_tas

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Posted 03 December 2011 - 08:56 AM

My DD did this too...

I just kept putting pants on her at home and if she wet them I explained that you need to keep pants dry (good if you have a picture of something they like - I would say you need to keep the owls dry, we don't want to get our pants wet) and put her straight on the toilet/potty as soon as she wet and again explain that it is all ok, but that wees and poos are for the toilet, so next time try really hard to keep pants dry. Watch for cues of needing to go to toilet - grabbing, jiggling and ask if they need to go.

Also I think at the point where she kept wetting in her pants I had been trying to avoid using a potty. I ended up buying a potty (as I had a very young baby at the time so it was easier to bring the potty from room to room with me as well). As soon as the potty came out she seemed to get it - easier for her to deal with maybe?

Then once she was confident I reintroduced the toilet and aside from a few accidents it has been great.

I waited a few more weeks to start using undies on trips awry from the house. I made sure the first few trips were relaxed affairs. Very first time we went for a walk around the neighborhood at her own pace. No rushing or stressing her. I still carry a potty in the car and have used it a few times when we have been driving along and no toilet in sight.

I always ask if she needs to go somewhere before leaving.

And I ran out of pullups for overnights a couple of months back and she had been getting up to go to the toilet in the night and waking up dry so she is now totally nappy free at 3 years. Yay! So nice only having one child in nappies! We could barely fit anything other than nappies in the wheelie bin before!
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Posted 03 December 2011 - 05:44 PM

I feel your pain, my 1 year old does exactly the same. So I know she has the control and can do it - she is 100% when nudie rudie - but still wets undies when I put them on her. Sorry no ideas other than to keep trying undies until they get it I guess.

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Posted 03 December 2011 - 06:33 PM

Zack did this too for a long while. Does she still wet them if you let her go with no undies but shorts? Zack never wet when he had shorts and no undies on. I just kept alternating undies then no undies with shorts and he eventually stopped wetting his undies.
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#5 Woodland

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Posted 04 December 2011 - 04:56 PM

Thanks for your advice guys. Lena I never thought of trying shorts but no undies. I'll give that a go this week.
I've been asking him if he wants to wear undies this weekend at home but he keeps saying no. Oh well, I guess I'll keep going with the nudie / potty combo which is a great success and just keep offering undies. At least at daycare he has to wear undies in the afternoon. Always wets them all but we'll see how he goes this week.
Please keep the advice coming!
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Posted 06 December 2011 - 07:50 PM

Aidan did this, input him back in nappies because i felt he just wasnt ready. 6 months later, he decided he was ready and has been in undies for 3 months with no accidents. I tried the going without undies and just put shorts on him, didnt work
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Posted 06 December 2011 - 09:11 PM

Hmmmm thanks Victoria, only problem is that my DS won't wear nappies around the house anymore. I have a hard time getting one on him for going out! Also he's mastered poo in the toilet so I don't really want to back track now. Its strange how he can't seem to get it when he has undies on but when nude he's spot on???
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