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#31 Porthos

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Posted 11 January 2010 - 10:23 AM

Awesome idea Em. Especially because B can then see he is still getting heaps of time with Ashton and time with you as a family....plus you'll finally get some of that alone time you really need.

Good luck xxx

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Posted 14 January 2010 - 10:30 PM

QUOTE(xxEmxx @ Jan 2 2010, 08:10 PM) View Post

Thanks ladies. It's been a tough week so far. I'm not really coping very well, and don't really feel very supported by friends. I think because I'm known as a strong person who battles her way through anything people don't think I need help or a message every now and then to see how I'm doing. However they all seem to be keeping in touch with Braden to see how he is coping sad.gif

i feel like I am not allowed to feel sad or have a tough time because I'm the one that initiated the break up? Yes ok, I ended it, but I'm still missing him when he isn't here, trying to be strong when Ashton sits at the window looking outside crying waiting for
daddy to pull up, and I'm still crying myself to sleep every night. Just because I ended it doesn't mean I'm not sad.

Sorry for the wah wah, I just don't have anyone else to talk to sad.gif


You're in Adelaide aren't you hunni? If so, add me on FB smile.gif We can catch up, let the boys play and let you vent all you like xx

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Posted 15 January 2010 - 06:08 AM

Em - I had the same issues with DH at the start of it. I asked for a space to clear my head. He didn't give it to me, it would be 1 day or a few hours and he'll contact me to see how I'm going. In the end I couldn't take it and told him that it was completely over.

I think the roster really is a good idea. I hope B agrees to it for you.

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Posted 19 January 2010 - 03:02 PM

To Whomever is reading this thread and reporting back to B.

I've not written anything here that I don't want B to know. I'm not stupid enough to think that it won't get back to him, public forum and all.

But here is an idea. How about you tell him ALL of whats written here rather than bits and pieces and stop making me out to be some evil mole.

You've caused a considerable amount of trouble today.

Hope you are happy with yourself.

Oh, and if its who I think it is... I am SO disappointed in you. I really honestly expected more of our friendship. Thanks for nothing.
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Posted 19 January 2010 - 03:11 PM

QUOTE(xxEmxx @ Jan 19 2010, 04:02 PM) View Post

To Whomever is reading this thread and reporting back to B.

I've not written anything here that I don't want B to know. I'm not stupid enough to think that it won't get back to him, public forum and all.

But here is an idea. How about you tell him ALL of whats written here rather than bits and pieces and stop making me out to be some evil mole.

You've caused a considerable amount of trouble today.

Hope you are happy with yourself.

Oh, and if its who I think it is... I am SO disappointed in you. I really honestly expected more of our friendship. Thanks for nothing.


That is so awful, xxEmxx! I'm sorry that a so called "friend" is doing this too you. People can be so pathetic. mad.gif

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Posted 19 January 2010 - 03:12 PM

I am not sure who it is. I have my suspiscions, but honestly it could be absolutely anyone.

I really hope its not a friend of mine - and if it is I'll be even more upset than I already am.
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Posted 19 January 2010 - 03:35 PM

Em - big hugs hunny. People always think they are within right to judge and critisize a persons actions but one is never in a position to do this, as it is completely unfair. They will only ever know half of the situation as they currently are not living it themselves.

Shame on you to the person reporting on this. Karma always sits and waits.

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Posted 19 January 2010 - 09:17 PM

Emma that sucks! I hope whoever did it comes clean.

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Posted 26 January 2010 - 06:59 PM

Not fair Em, not fair. Whoever that person is has done you a massive disservice. I really hope it wasn't your 'friend', not that a true friend would ever do such a thing.

You haven't said anything bad about B at all IMO anyways. There's been no personal slanging match, just a statement of what you're going through.

HUGS xxxxx


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Posted 26 February 2010 - 09:13 PM

Thinking of you - and wondering how you're doing?

Hope things are starting to look up for you smile.gif

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Posted 11 March 2010 - 09:13 PM

Em, that sucks! Who would do such a thing?
How would they even find you anyway?

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Posted 28 July 2011 - 01:03 PM

Last post reported.

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 02:25 PM

If it has been coming for 6 months, then don't doubt you have done the right thing, it isn't something you have rushed in to, it's just a transition in to a new brighter life.
like all the other ladies have said, lean on people, your girlfriends, family and all the amazing girls in this forum.

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 02:29 PM

QUOTE(CaseyT @ Aug 3 2011, 02:25 PM) View Post

If it has been coming for 6 months, then don't doubt you have done the right thing, it isn't something you have rushed in to, it's just a transition in to a new brighter life.
like all the other ladies have said, lean on people, your girlfriends, family and all the amazing girls in this forum.

There can't be a rainbow without the rain.

Casey....you really need to see when these posts have been posted. Em's is now in a happy relationship. I doubt htese threads need to be rehashed. blink.gif
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Posted 03 August 2011 - 05:05 PM

*shudders*

this was just the beginning of an awful, awful year.

No i did not do the right thing. If I didn't do this, he wouldn't have then come home to leave me a month later for an 18 year old. TWICE.

but yeah thanks for dragging this up. (thanks for having my back Lib x)
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