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#1 ♥ Emsie ♥

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 12:52 PM

B and I have decided to go our separate ways.

Actually, I was the one to suggest it, then after an hour of arguing & tears, he agreed it is for the best.

Its been building up for about 6 months now. Not a decision that was made easily.

We haven't put a definite "thats it, over" on it, but he is moving out and we are going to give it a few months and see what happens.

Its all very amicable. He's seen what an ugly break up(s) has done to his mother of the years, and has been the child involved before as well so we are both really just concentrating on doing what we can for the kids.

We will have shared care of Ash, although majority of nights Ashton will be at home with me. We have also agreed on regular famikly days (with the 4 of us) and still wants to be an active part of Jordan's life which I'm really thankful for, as Jordan really does idolise him.

Its all pretty raw, I'm a bit numb and scared of the unknown, but so far so good.

Please excuse the complete spacey-ness of this post, and apologies if I've been a bit precious and overly emotional lately.

THanks for listening.

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 12:55 PM

Oh wow Em! I hope that in time you find peace with your decision. Good on you for having the balls to stand up and do something xo
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 01:10 PM

Oh Em, I am sorry to hear this. May the future you bring happiness, no matter what happens.
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 01:22 PM

I'm sorry to hear this, Em.
Take care, and know that we're hear for you if ever you need to talk smile.gif

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 01:51 PM

So sorry to hear this, take care of yourself.
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 02:01 PM

oh no! so sorry to hear your relationship has broken down. be gentle with yourself and keep communicating. we are all here for you. x

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 02:41 PM

I hope you are ok, even if it was a joint decision, it must be hard...
Best of luck with making your life what you want it to be again!

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 02:54 PM

I wish you all the best Em.
It must have been really hard coming to this decision but I'm sure you have made the right one for you and your boys.
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 03:02 PM

Wow, very sorry to hear this although seems like you've made the best decision for you, for now. I wish you all the best.
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 04:53 PM

Thanks for your support ladies.

Been a tough day. B has gone to stay with friends, and all afternoon I've been having anxiety attacks. Although this is what I want, I can't stop thinking "what have I done?"

going to be a very tough time ahead indeed.
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 05:21 PM

Oh honey, I've been wondering if this might be coming sad.gif I'm so sorry sweetheart but I'm so glad you've managed to keep it amicable. You're a strong, wise woman. Lean on your support network, let them help you get through this xxxx

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 05:30 PM

Em I had no idea, but I'm glad you've made the right decision for you and the boys.

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 09:21 PM

Oh honey we're all here for you. It will be tough but you'll get through it, you'll surprise yourself and no matter what happens you'll come out the other end stronger and smiling.

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 09:22 PM

Oh Emma I am so sorry to hear this sad.gif

I'm always here if you want to chat.

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 11:42 PM

Best of luck with your decision.

I know at times it will be hard and you will question what you are doing, but it sounds like everything has been thought out and hope your plan works for you.
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