Posted 01 September 2009 - 08:31 PM
Im new to this sort of thing as this is my first pregnancy and a friend told me I should sign up so I could talk to other people who are going through the same thing at the same time...
Anyone with any advice is welcome to give it... However there are a few things you all should know...
I am going to be a single mother... My Ex (boyfriend @ the time) told me that he didnt want the baby and that if I knew what was good for me I would abort or he would make my life miserable... I have decided to keep the baby and I told him that I wasnt really pregnant...
So any advice on what to do and where to go and what to expect would be greatly appriciated...
Posted 03 September 2009 - 10:46 PM
no advice on your ex bf situation but wanted to wish you the best of luck
Bean 8w3day 31.12.07 & Bear 9w1day 14.4.08
Posted 04 September 2009 - 08:46 AM
Your ex is the one missing out...you will be wonderful mummy if you have already had to make this sort of decision to have your child. Lucky baby!!!!
Posted 04 September 2009 - 12:49 PM
You will be a great mummy & do a wonderful job with your little cub
This forum is great for finding lots of info or for getting any questions you have answered & definatly join a mummy thread (there should be a may 2010 one somewhere)
Posted 04 September 2009 - 12:59 PM
Sorry to hear your ex wasn't exactly nice when you told him Good on you for standing up for what you want.
Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:08 PM
You have definitely made the right choice!
I am a single mummy to be, so we can sort through it together. But my baby is to a friend of a friend. There have been times when it has been hard, but it is so worth it. Plus, we get to be a little bit selfish with our choices
If you ever want to ask anything feel free to PM me.
I look forward to getting to know you!
Abbey, doing things her way since 29-10-09
Stand up for what you believe in, even if you're standing alone
Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:10 PM
As Porthos said, you will be a great mumma.
Good luck. Being a mummy is truely a gift - you will love it!
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:55 PM
This place is wonderful for meeting a great variety of lovely people.
Just wanting to wish you luck with your pregnancy. I'm trying to fall myself so hopefully I will find out in a week and can join you in the May mummies!
Posted 08 September 2009 - 06:35 PM
I just want to ask you all for some advice regarding paternal rights...I received an email today from my ex's mother telling me she will be seeking legal advice on my pregnancy... However they have made it perfectly clear (as has my ex) that they would prefer I abort! And I have made it perfectly clear that I want nothing from them... The only reason I told him that I am pregnant is to give him the option of being apart of it (which I think is pretty reasonable).
Do I have anything to worry about? Or will they try to make my life hell?
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