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#1 CubOnBoard

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Posted 01 September 2009 - 08:31 PM

Hey,

Im new to this sort of thing as this is my first pregnancy and a friend told me I should sign up so I could talk to other people who are going through the same thing at the same time... blush.gif

Anyone with any advice is welcome to give it... However there are a few things you all should know...

I am going to be a single mother... My Ex (boyfriend @ the time) told me that he didnt want the baby and that if I knew what was good for me I would abort or he would make my life miserable... ohmy.gif I have decided to keep the baby and I told him that I wasnt really pregnant...

So any advice on what to do and where to go and what to expect would be greatly appriciated... smile.gif
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Posted 03 September 2009 - 10:46 PM

welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy... this forum is a wealth of knowledge and support, and I'm sure you will find answers to many of your questions here..

no advice on your ex bf situation but wanted to wish you the best of luck
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#3 Porthos

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Posted 04 September 2009 - 08:46 AM

Congratulations on your pregnancy! You'll love it on here there is so much helpful advice and support. You can pretty much get the answer to anything!

Your ex is the one missing out...you will be wonderful mummy if you have already had to make this sort of decision to have your child. Lucky baby!!!! smile.gif

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Posted 04 September 2009 - 12:49 PM

Yay so glad to see you joined biggrin.gif

You will be a great mummy & do a wonderful job with your little cub smile.gif

This forum is great for finding lots of info or for getting any questions you have answered & definatly join a mummy thread (there should be a may 2010 one somewhere)
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#5 ~steph~

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Posted 04 September 2009 - 12:59 PM

Welcome!! This is definitely the place to be if you have any questions to ask, I am not sure how I would have managed without it.

Sorry to hear your ex wasn't exactly nice when you told him sad.gif Good on you for standing up for what you want.
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#6 CubOnBoard

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Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:03 PM

Thanks so much everyone! I look forward to getting to know all of you! biggrin.gif
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:08 PM

Welcome!

You have definitely made the right choice!

I am a single mummy to be, so we can sort through it together. But my baby is to a friend of a friend. There have been times when it has been hard, but it is so worth it. Plus, we get to be a little bit selfish with our choices biggrin.gif

If you ever want to ask anything feel free to PM me.

I look forward to getting to know you!
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#8 Tracey_M

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Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:10 PM

Welcome to i-do. Im sure you will find this site very helpful. The girls here are a wealth of knowledge and a lot of fun..

As Porthos said, you will be a great mumma.

Good luck. Being a mummy is truely a gift - you will love it!


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Posted 04 September 2009 - 10:55 PM

Hi there and welcome!

This place is wonderful for meeting a great variety of lovely people.

Just wanting to wish you luck with your pregnancy. I'm trying to fall myself so hopefully I will find out in a week and can join you in the May mummies!

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#10 CubOnBoard

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Posted 08 September 2009 - 06:35 PM

Thanks so much everyone... Its so good to know that there are people out there who care about others in the world... Unlike some people I know... dry.gif

I just want to ask you all for some advice regarding paternal rights...I received an email today from my ex's mother telling me she will be seeking legal advice on my pregnancy... However they have made it perfectly clear (as has my ex) that they would prefer I abort! And I have made it perfectly clear that I want nothing from them... The only reason I told him that I am pregnant is to give him the option of being apart of it (which I think is pretty reasonable). unsure.gif

Do I have anything to worry about? unsure.gif Or will they try to make my life hell? sad.gif
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