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#1 MsGems

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:10 PM

Yes, I am single again. Yes, I broke up with Scott. It happened at the start of April.

Yes, I have movied out. Yes, it was the right decision for me. Yes, I am glad I did it and am enjoying my life as me and working out who I am and what I want to do with my life. No, I didn't allow myself to do that properly in between my relationships with my ex-husband and Scott.

I didn't want to start a thread about it. I was happy to just discreetly change things (ie. remove pics from signature, change status on Facebook) but I keep getting asked about it and I'm getting a bit jack of being questioned.

I'm a big girl. I can make my own decisions, and I'll make the ones that are right for me.

I don't feel like sharing any further information on it, and I don't feel that there is anything else to share. If you feel you do you want further information, maybe you should ask yourself why you want it before you ask me. Feel free to PM if you do still think you have a reason to question me further, but don't necessarily expect a response.

Here's to living life as Gemma and enjoying every step of the way. I won't let people change me. I won't settle for less than I am worthy of.

ETA - No, my signature is not in reference to the break up in case anyone is thinking I'm a cold-hearted b!tch. It's in reference to the fact that I've decided to take myself on a holiday to Europe next year.

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:21 PM

You are completely correct, it's your life, you need to do what's best for you! All the best for the future and I hope you have an absolute ball in Europe!
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:21 PM

Oh Gemma I'm sorry that people have made you feel that you had to make a post like this. As if breaking up isn't hard enough without a million questions sad.gif

This is your business no one elses so pfft to them!
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:24 PM

Gemma, I am so sorry that this has happened sad.gif but here's to a new start and I'm so jealous that you're going to Europe. Have a fantastic time and who knows what may come to you while you are there wink.gif

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:26 PM

Gem, let me at the people who find it necessary to quiz you, and I shall quiz them about their lives.

Sorry if I have done it in the past though sad.gif
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:49 PM

It's your life Gemma - you have to do what makes YOU happy - screw everyone else being stickybeaks - much love to you and enjoy your holiday!!
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#7 ~Emma~

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:50 PM

I'm shocked that ppl feel the need to ask you about it!!

Enjoy your "GEMMA" time and i hope that you acheive everything you want!

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:52 PM

Good for you Gemma.

I look forward to hearing about how the next chapter of your life unfolds.
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:22 PM

Some people are just so nosy. Best of luck to you!

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:26 PM

I was only wondering the other day what you were up to!!! Good on you for after yourself. Enjoy Europe and some you time.
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:36 PM

Why is it anyones business? Why do people feel its ok to question someone on something they have nothing to do with? ohmy.gif
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:41 PM

QUOTE(*Bec* @ Jun 10 2009, 01:45 PM) View Post

I can't believe people even quiz people about these sorts of things. I picked up on it over time but didn't feel the need to question you about it.
I think it is great that you are doing what is best for you and I too am jealous about your trip!


Ditto!

Here's to you enjoying your "Gemma" time and living your life the way you want to! (Without the sticky beaks butting their noses in!)

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Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:50 PM

I'm also sorry that you felt the need to make a post but it's your life and you can do what you want smile.gif

Have a blast in Europe and make the most of it smile.gif
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 03:04 PM

Sorry you had to make this post.

But good on you. It is your life and you are the one who has to live it truthful to yourself.

Have fun in Europe.
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Posted 10 June 2009 - 04:07 PM

QUOTE(Cate @ Jun 10 2009, 01:21 PM) View Post

This is your business no one elses so pfft to them!

My thoughts exactly...




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