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#1 MsGems

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Posted 09 October 2008 - 04:05 PM

I love I-do so much that I just can't stay away from the place, yet I find myself wondering where to post (apart from in GCC).

I'm an avid reader of the 'Single Girls' thread (hope that doesn't make me sound like a stalker unsure.gif I promise I'm not, I just love reading about your antics smile.gif) but don't feel like it's my place to post in there having been with my boy for nearly a year now ... I certainly don't feel like the single girl I once was ... Yet I don't feel entirely comfortable posting in the 'Happily Committed' section because although I am very happy and very committed to my boy and our relationship, it's probably not quite time for me to be jumping into there yet unsure.gif (or maybe that's just me being weirded out because it's in the weddings section unsure.gif)

Anyways, I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels like their in limbo land, so I thought I'd start a thread for all us girlies somewhere in between singledom and happily committed, and any others who want to join in smile.gif A place for us to discuss the highs and the lows of a new beginning in a new relationship.

So ... welcome to Limbo Land!
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Posted 09 October 2008 - 04:14 PM

Great idea Gems, I'll visit for sure smile.gif

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Posted 09 October 2008 - 04:16 PM

Nope smile.gif You're not alone smile.gif And it's nice to know I'm not either smile.gif

I've gone through many phases on this forum, so I feel right at home here, but in my current situation I found it hard to find the "right place" for me IYWKIM. What better way to find that place then to create a new one smile.gif

I'm in not at the stage where I'm ready to discuss weddings, yet I'm certainly not enjoying the ups and downs of singledom. The Boy and I have been together for nearly a year and neither of us have any intention of going anywhere wub.gif Including down the aisle wink.gif Just yet tongue.gif wink.gif


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Posted 09 October 2008 - 04:45 PM

Hey ladies,
Great idea Ms Gems, i love posting in all of the threads but i do feel there isn't one particular place i feel that i slot into if you know what i mean.
My Partner and i are not looking to settle down just yet. We are happy where we are and i feel comfortable knowing he's not going anywhere but i don't think i could handle the "engagement" just yet smile.gif
Two exciting things happened to me today and i thought i'd share :0
1. I've decided to book a trip to Greece with my girlfriends!! I went to Europe this time last year with Scotty but i missed out on Greece because i ran out of money hehe so now i'm going to book on Monday and i'm soooo excited!!
2. My cousin (who is practically my sister) ask me to be Godmother of her baby who will be born in April 09 smile.gif
Such an exciting day for me today smile.gif
Anyway i look forward to getting to know you girls heaps better

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Posted 09 October 2008 - 07:52 PM

i'd love to join your thread Gems...can i? smile.gif
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Posted 09 October 2008 - 09:02 PM

I hear you Nae smile.gif

That's fantastic news!! I'm so jealous of your overseas trip dry.gif tongue.gif I'm so keen to go travelling, but no funds just yet. It'll happen though, I'll make sure of it!!
And how lovely of your cousin to ask you to be the godmother of her baby!!

P.S. Your man must be a good one, Scotty's tend to be tongue.gif (Mine's a Scotty too wub.gif)


ETA - Of course you can Heids smile.gif I had actually you and Jess in mind when I started this thread smile.gif
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Posted 09 October 2008 - 09:20 PM

Great Idea gemma, but I have to admit, you had me worried there for a sec ohmy.gif
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Posted 09 October 2008 - 10:10 PM

You had me worried too Gemma, then I came in to see smile.gif central!
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Posted 10 October 2008 - 01:44 PM

Sorry ladies!! Didn't mean to worry you!! Everything is utterly wonderful at the moment smile.gif smile.gif (Hehehe .. more smilies, I'm smiling like a loony in this thread!!)

I have news!!!

We asked our housemate about renewing the lease last night, and he said that he and his gf would probably get a place of their own. So the lease will be getting signed by me and Scotty!! Mr "Maybe you should buy the fridge alone because I don't want to make big purchases together" has agreed that he and I sign a 12 month lease together!! ohmy.gif biggrin.gif

So we're off to do that tomorrow, then we're going lounge shopping smile.gif

(Pssst .. I think he's realised that I'm not telling porky pies when I tell him I'm not going anywhere wink.gif And maybe he's a wee bit smitten with me wink.gif)
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Posted 10 October 2008 - 02:13 PM

Awww Ms Gems that's great news!! Such a big step for him hehehe!! Have fun lounge shopping tomorrow. I love going in and testing all the different lounges.. my favorite place on earth is Ikea haha

Definately put some money aside to go travelling, although i never did and i still went so it will work itself out smile.gif hmmm still in some debt sad.gif

I'm sure we have very good taste in our men smile.gif Hence the names smile.gif

Well Scotty left this morning on a Trip to Melbourne with the boys it's a combined footy trip/ bucks weekend i can only imagine what kind of mischief they will get up to. I'm ok with it because included in his footy friends is my brother so i know for sure nothing bad will happen ( not that i really thought it would )
I also have a Hens weekend away for the Bride. We are going to the Hunter Valley which (if your not for NSW) is a whole lot of Wineries and is just beautiful smile.gif I'm not a big wine drinker but i'm looking forward to a weekend with the girls smile.gif The boys may not get up to mischief but i can't say much for us girls hehe!!

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Posted 10 October 2008 - 02:24 PM

You had me worried too!!! tongue.gif

OMG Gems that is fabulous news about the lease!!!!! Very very cool!


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Posted 10 October 2008 - 02:26 PM

Sounds like you've got a very fun weekend on the cards Nae!!

Ooopsie - I think I need to rename this thread .. *thinking cap on*

Isn't it just fab!?!
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Posted 10 October 2008 - 02:26 PM

I'm way out in limbo land. I feel I don't fit in the single thread because I'm only just at the stage of even thinking of looking at guys, but also not in a relationship, so not even fitting into this thread!

Hmmm.... it's weird and I don't know what to make of it.
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Posted 10 October 2008 - 02:30 PM

Awww Kylie ((HUGS)) you're more than welcome to join in our random babble smile.gif

We're always here to listen hon smile.gif And to send "Mr Fabulous meet Kylie!" vibes wink.gif
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Posted 10 October 2008 - 02:36 PM

How are we liking the new thread title? Is that less worrying? tongue.gif
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