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#1 familyof4


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Posted 30 August 2008 - 01:57 PM

First of all sorry for being MIA for so long..........................2 kids and diploma course and all the rest that go with seem to make it near impossible to get on here anymore.........

The title says it all, after being with the new man for 10 months he decided it was time to start sending me on a guilt trip over the fact that I spend time with the kids and I cancel plans when they are sick and stuff......................like dah I am a mum what else would I do??????

Well I told him that the kids are number 1 and will be always...................he said that isn't fair........so I said this is the way it is, if u don't like it you know where the door is.......so he left..

I cried for sure, but really what sort of a partner would make you feel guilty about being a mum.........omg like get real......

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Posted 30 August 2008 - 02:57 PM

I'm sorry to hear your relationship is over, but it sounds like you've made the right decision and he's not the right person to stand and support you in raising your family.

Thinking of you.

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Posted 30 August 2008 - 03:27 PM

Sorry to hear it went that way for you sad.gif But selfish on his part! Good on you for putting your kids first smile.gif

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Posted 30 August 2008 - 04:18 PM

What an arse! You did the right thing smile.gif
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Posted 31 August 2008 - 01:01 PM

OMG what a looser. And a selfish one at that.

I'm sorry you are going through this hun. But obviously, it just wasn't meant to be.

You will find someone who loves your kids and loves the fact you are such a fantastic mum.

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Posted 31 August 2008 - 02:22 PM

QUOTE(* Kylie * @ Aug 30 2008, 02:57 PM) View Post

I'm sorry to hear your relationship is over, but it sounds like you've made the right decision and he's not the right person to stand and support you in raising your family.

Thinking of you.


Exactly what she said. If he doenst understand that your kids are your number one, then how can he possibly expect to be your number two?
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Posted 31 August 2008 - 03:40 PM

Am sorry to hear this, relationships breaking up are never easy.

You gave it a good shot though, 10 months is plenty of time to sort out issues. If he hadn't learnt by then that while your children are still dependent on you, they are number one, then he's living in a world of his own.

I hope you feel okay soon.
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