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#1 Rachae


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Posted 18 July 2008 - 10:38 AM

So David and I are over..

It started with me almost kissing another guy.....

Then we had some time, and we both realised that we were happier when we werent with eachother.

I am totally heartbroken although i think its the better thing.

So here i go again..

Start from nothing.

We have decided to stay friends, like it seems we have been for the past few months.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 10:41 AM

May you both find peace in your hearts (even tho you have chosen to go down this path without each other) and have the strength and resilience to move fwd and start over again with NO REGRETS!!

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 10:45 AM

I'm sorry to hear this, but I"m glad you can remain friends.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 10:53 AM

sorry to hear that, but im glad you are happy

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 10:58 AM

Good luck on your new path, I hope you find happiness.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 11:05 AM

Oh hun I am so sorry you are going through this. It seems you are aware of what is best for you both in the long run but what is best is not always what is easiest. I hope you find the strength to do what you need to and get through this.

We are all thinking of you xoxox
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Posted 18 July 2008 - 11:07 AM

I'm sorry to hear this. I hope you can both find happiness, even if it's not with each other.
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Posted 18 July 2008 - 11:27 AM

Oh Rachae, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you can find the happiness that you deserve. My PM box is always open if you need someone to chat to.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 11:28 AM

Sorry to hear this Rachae.... Best of luck on your new journey

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 11:52 AM

Oh wow, this is such a surprise! I'm so sorry, even though you know it might be right, I'm sure you're still hurting.

Thinking of you, and hoping you will be OK.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 12:01 PM

I'm so sorry Rachae.

Thinking of you.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 12:52 PM

Rachae, I am so sorry to hear this but it sounds like although you are devastated at the moment, you know that eventually you are going towards a path that will bring happiness.
Just remember that we're all here for you, both in the good times and at those times you need support.
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Posted 18 July 2008 - 01:02 PM

Thinking of you Rachae.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 01:22 PM

Rachae, I am so sorry to hear you are upset (ETA - and about the breakup, but you seem content in your decision, and although its upsetting, I am sure you made the right choice).

Just remember, you are not 'starting from nothing'. You are starting with the knowledge of what works for you, what you need, and a better sense of who you are. You are a very strong woman and will get through this.

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Posted 18 July 2008 - 02:59 PM

This is very dissappointing to read, I cant even understand it. I mean you just got married less then 5 months ago.

While keeping the lines of communication open is good, sometimes I think staying friends can be dangerous, how do you define your "Friendship' now? Couples make the mistake of falling back into a way of talking to each other like nothing has happened and they only end up hurting each other more.

Do you plan to work on your marriage or are there differences that are unresolvable? It seems like you've moved on so quickly?

I'm sorry I dont really know what to say, but this lovely forum will help you get through it I'm sure.

I hope that the remainder of this year brings you what you need and gives you the strength to make the right decisions. Getting a supportive network around you will be invaluable in your roughest times.

All the best and take care.
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