How soon are you suppose to sleep with a new man?
Posted 24 June 2008 - 05:10 PM
I know this is a lil embarrassing but i need some advice as it has been sooo long since my last relationship.. and it was a painful one
Normally I would just let things run its natural course but im in a lil bit of a different situation.
This new relationship is all based long distance... So technically I have only seen him 2 times. We talk everyday and email every hour for the last 2 months... but when I saw him the last time it was weird the first couple of moments... juz dont want it to be awkard.
To be honest Im VERY NERVOUS... and its daunting the idea of sleeping with someone new.
Would love to hear what people have to say about this subject!!
Posted 24 June 2008 - 05:19 PM
Normally I would just let things run its natural course
I think you have answered your own question there. Let it run its course, there is no set time within which you are "supposed" to sleep with someone. Do it when it feels right I guess. Forcing it when you're still feeling awkward around each other won't help the situation.
Posted 24 June 2008 - 06:06 PM
Don't pressure yourself because you feel you need to have done it by a certain time
Posted 24 June 2008 - 06:20 PM
I dont thnk there is a hard and fast rule, only the two of you \ can know what is best for your relationship.
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Posted 24 June 2008 - 07:10 PM
For me personally, I have a 3 date rule. If I really like a guy, I make sure I wait to sleep with him until after at least the 3rd date. If I'm still not sure though, I wait longer.
This is something you will know in yourself when the time comes. I know how daunting it all can be. But don't do it just because you think you have to or you think it's been long enough.
Good luck with it hun. And just breathe x
Posted 24 June 2008 - 09:19 PM
For me in the same situation, I would not be comfortable sleeping with him after only seeing him twice, even if we'd been communicating for months. I'd prefer to spend more time face-to-face, do lots of make-out etc and warm up to the main event. I have this thing about playing just a bit hard to get to make the anticipation grow. But this is just me, mind you you might be different.
Good luck with it! Getting together with someone for the first time is so exciting.
Posted 24 June 2008 - 11:08 PM
Try not to put too much stress on yourself... I know it can be nerve racking the first time, but remember - SEX IS FUN!
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 09:07 AM
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