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#31 L's Angel

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Posted 30 April 2008 - 07:53 PM

Oh Kylie, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way.

Please be kind to yourself, allow yourself to grieve in whatever way you need. There's no way of avoiding the emotions that this weekend will naturally bring, but I hope that it can be a turning point for you. I hope you can start to see past the pain and that you'll start to see the glimmer of hope in the darkness.

If the Kylie we see on the forum is a reflection of the 'real' Kylie, I can't imagine you could ever be a 'cold bitch' - And nor should you be. The kindness, generosity and compassion that reflect from all your posts should not be pushed aside, they should be embraced - They are part of what make you the wonderful person you are.

None of this is your fault, nor do you deserve any of it. Unfortunately bad things do happen to good people.

You'll be in my thoughts this weekend - Take care.
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Posted 30 April 2008 - 10:55 PM

Kylie, the weekend away with the girls and copious amounts of alcohol is just what the doctor ordered. I wish I was there to enjoy it with you. Blah to the bridesmaid who has gone away for the weekend, what a great friend!

I do think you are entitled to be upset about this weekend and yes, it was 7 months ago but no, you were in love with him and going through the EDD of your baby's birth is also going to be upsetting for you. It still could take some time but I really wish you every bit of happiness.

Look after yourself honey, and being a cold bitch is just not you. xxxx

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Posted 01 May 2008 - 12:48 PM

Thanks everyone. smile.gif I'm feeling a smidge better today, trying to think of Saturday something fun to look forward to rather than what it is, which is hard.

I thought I would be in such a better place than this.
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Posted 01 May 2008 - 12:58 PM

QUOTE(* Kylie * @ Apr 30 2008, 10:54 AM) View Post

I just want to give up, I seriously do. I may as well just get a cat and be the old bag with a cat.

Sometimes cats are better company than men! tongue.gif

oh Kylie, I am so sorry that this day has come sad.gif chin up beautiful girl, you can get through this smile.gif


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Posted 01 May 2008 - 01:05 PM

i really hope your ok kylie! by no means will it be easy, but take comfort in the fact that you have your life back, and even though you miss him, it is overall, for the best, it wont be a nice day, but each day will get easier and easier for you, slowly but surely, just try and surround yourself with friends, or try and do something to take your mind off it, why dont you go and spoil yourself go shopping and get your hair done as a pick-me-up? but it's also completley ok and acceptable to just wallow at home and cry if you feel thats what you want to do, everything is a step forward in some way smile.gif
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Posted 01 May 2008 - 01:44 PM

sad.gif Aww my sweets. I wish I could make you feel better.

Big hugs for you hun....

Hey - if you're going to Berry make sure you eat those famous doughnuts.. those things are enough to brighten up even the crappiest days.

Just know that we all love you xxx
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Posted 01 May 2008 - 01:48 PM

I know this isn't the same, but my Dad had a stroke 17wks out from when we were due to get married so we had to postpone our day a bit. On the day it was meant to fall on, I'll admit it was very hard knowing the reason why we weren't getting married, but we made sure we done happy things & kept our minds occupied, I think its good for you to do the same, once the day has come & gone, you'll be just that little bit stronger & be able to move on. It is hard knowing these specific dates are nearing, but you will get through them & it will make you a stronger person smile.gif

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Posted 01 May 2008 - 01:52 PM

Kylie, just wanted to send you big hugs. Your strength and courage through all this is something you should be very proud of. Try and look at this as the last hurdle to get through. Take care hun

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Posted 01 May 2008 - 03:39 PM

QUOTE(Toppy @ Apr 30 2008, 10:45 AM) View Post

This viscous cycle of thinking was only stopped when I allowed it to stop. I dont know if you are ready to allow it to stop at this point in time. But there will come a day when you wake up and look out the window and realise what a beautiful day it is and it WONT make you angry that you have no-one to share it with. You will realise that you are able to enjoy this beauty alone... And you will start to feel content in yourself..

There is a bigger picture for what is planned for your life ahead. You yourself cannot see it now, you only have the capability to view each day at a time. But I bet sometime in the future you will realise how glad you are that life turned out the way that it did.

This is really beautiful & I hope this day comes for you soon Kylie.
Big hugs to you beautiful, at least meaybe once this day has gone, it will truly feel like it's all behind you.

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Posted 01 May 2008 - 04:44 PM

*hug* no words, just here for you.

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Posted 03 May 2008 - 05:02 PM

Thinking of you, Kylie....

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Posted 03 May 2008 - 05:43 PM

I hope you are having a great evening with your friends Kylie, you deserve it! Thinking of you!
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Posted 03 May 2008 - 05:51 PM

Big hugs Kylie. Thinking of you. x

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Posted 03 May 2008 - 08:05 PM

Also thinking of you. Hope you found yourself surprisingly happier than expected.
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Posted 04 May 2008 - 07:18 AM

I hope yesterday wasnt too hard on you.
Just think today it would all have been over and you may have woken with a what did i do thought.

You will find happiness Kylie.
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