Saturday should be my wedding day
Posted 30 April 2008 - 12:56 PM
im jus so sorry to hear you're feeling like that....
cry all you want. we're all here for you!! xox
Posted 30 April 2008 - 01:02 PM
I have a couple of beautiful friends who are coming with me down to Berry for the day, and then I plan to spend the rest of the weekend in an alcohol induced coma.
Kylie, this sounds perfect.
Posted 30 April 2008 - 01:05 PM
"You use twitter Mama, so that must make youuuu... a twit?" Finn, 5
"Show Dadda your dance Mama! I like it when people laugh at you!" Finn, 5
J: Carrying a baby is the most special thing you can do! Finn:"Yeah... Except for having a sausage sizzle at my school!"
Posted 30 April 2008 - 01:10 PM
I think when those dates come around it's kind of a finality that can hit harder than you expect but can also help bring some closure.
It's only going to be tougher because of the due date as well. I hope your friends let you laugh and cry and grieve over the weekend.
I'll be thinking of you.
Posted 30 April 2008 - 01:17 PM
I think a booze up this weekend is just what the doctor ordered.
Don't forget you have all us here for you
Posted 30 April 2008 - 04:02 PM
Seriously though Kylie I knew that your wedding date was coming up but I didn't know that it was also your EDD. I really want to give you a big hug and not let go until you feel you are ready to take on the world again.
You can scream, cry, be bitter, or drink. Just do whatever it takes to get you through this miserable weekend. I hope you have some great friends to be there to help you through it. I'm always here if you want to talk.
Don't give up. You have so much beauty to offer the world, even if you don't feel like it.
Posted 30 April 2008 - 04:22 PM
I do love the voodoo doll idea.
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Posted 30 April 2008 - 04:52 PM
I know it's hard to be positive at this time, but you are going to have a great life - you won't be a crazy old cat lady (not that there's anything wrong with that!) - you're meant to be a wife and mum and I know you'll get that chance.
Getting over this weekend is a hurdle you're strong enough to overcome: let everything out, get pissed, say good bye to your past with Lee, remember your precious little one, and look forward to all the good times that are on their way.
Posted 30 April 2008 - 05:18 PM
why can't I be a cold bitch and not let it affect me like him.
I was with you and understanding what you were on about until here.... I think that if you got your wish, you'd also lose the things that make you most special: your compassion, generosity and ability to brighten the day of others.
I guess there's nothing constructive I can say because it's something that you just have to go through those horrible motions, but I can hope that this weekend isn't as bad as you're anticipating. I think that you've got some good plans put in place so that you can get through it as best as you can hope, and if not, you know that this forum is always full of people who care and will be behind you and supporting you in your time of grief. You're not alone chicky.
P.S. Who knows? Maybe this weekend you could also have tripped up the aisle, said another guy's name when saying the vows, trailed a mass of toilet paper from the toilet, had a gust of wind go right up your skirt.....
Hope that made you smile...or at least smirk a little.
Just so blessed: Keely Grace, Imogen Elise, Jakobi Jai and my better half Steve
Posted 30 April 2008 - 06:19 PM
I dont have any advice to offer that hasn't already....
I hope there are some lovely people you can spend the weekend with...
Posted 30 April 2008 - 06:21 PM
I'm not being dismissive of your feelings for him (I can't imagine how much it hurts!) but he did the dirty on you. He treated you awfully. You need to remind yourself that you are so much better than that and deserve someone a hell of lot better than him.
Posted 30 April 2008 - 06:28 PM
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Posted 30 April 2008 - 07:15 PM
Posted 30 April 2008 - 07:41 PM
I can only imagine how you are feeling. it must be so hard to think about what might have been. But even though I don't know you IRL i know that deep down you know that things happen for a reason, and that you are such a beautiful person - and brighter happier days are definitely coming your way.
Please don't be too sad about the past to see the bright future in fron.
You are very missed around here.
Posted 30 April 2008 - 07:42 PM
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