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#1 MsKara

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Posted 19 September 2007 - 10:58 AM

I had a dream that I cheated on my DH with someone. I really don't know who it was because I've never seen his face before. In my dream we were kissing and I fell asleep, when I woke up Hubby was there because he'd called my mobile and the guy had told him that we'd slept together. Hubby told me he didn't want me anymore and I was devastated!!

I woke up crying and because hubby was on the other side of the bed and I was confused, I thought it was real so I woke him up crying and telling him I was sorry lol. He had no idea what was going on laugh.gif

Has anyone had these dreams before?
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#2 L's Angel

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Posted 19 September 2007 - 01:37 PM

I have and it really freaked me out - I've also had dreams about us fighting (we never fight) and woken up so upset that BF woke up and wondered what on earth was wrong. I had to tell him that he was being mean to me in my sleep!
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Posted 19 September 2007 - 03:11 PM

Yes, I certainly had lots of these dreams during my engagement and the first month of our marriage. I personally think it has a lot to do with transition and getting your sub conscious into the 'wife mode'. smile.gif
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Posted 19 September 2007 - 03:15 PM

I have. ANd it was horrible. I freaked out, thinking it meant something that I hadn't noticed or something!
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Posted 19 September 2007 - 04:36 PM

Oh god yes... I've had lots of these dreams and fantasies since I got engaged... and I think Mrs Jo is spot on... its the transition...


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Posted 19 September 2007 - 04:43 PM

I had a dream HTB cheated on me.

I woke up and kicked him as hard as I could in the shin. When he woke up and asked why i did that i told him smile.gif...felt so real at the time he is lucky I didnt kick him somewhere else. ha ha

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Posted 19 September 2007 - 11:07 PM

I'm glad I'm not alone here!
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Posted 21 September 2007 - 08:02 PM

Yep, I've had them too and many times. ph34r.gif Strange thing is, it's rarely the same guy twice and most times I know them; celebrities or men from my past (Matthew McConaughey one night... that was a great dream). Strange thing is that sometimes I can wake up with this strange feeling and even if I can't remember the dream, I know I've dreamt about another guy... I sound so promiscious but I'm committed to monogamy so I'm not sure why I have them.

I've also had a dream where my hubby left me for another woman and I woke up so upset. I told DH what had happened and he was really apologetic even though it was in my dreams!
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Posted 24 September 2007 - 04:51 PM

I have them still! I've been married almost 7 years!!!! ohmy.gif

Mine are usually celebs tho ph34r.gif Lovely dreams sometimes! I always feel so bad though!!!

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Posted 28 September 2007 - 09:22 PM

I try to dream about cheating on Damon with either Justin Timberlake or Robbie Williasm - does that count? laugh.gif
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Posted 29 September 2007 - 11:23 AM

Since being engaged, I have had lots about FH cheating on me. They feel so real and I feel so betrayed and hurt when I have had them. Poor FH, he cops it a little bit - but he can't help what I dream laugh.gif
Nice to know that it's normal though.
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Posted 16 October 2007 - 04:36 PM

Ohh Wow....and I was thinking I was the only one who had these dreams. Few so glad i'm not. I have all sorts. Hubby goes back to his ex, I'm hot for this other guy and am cheating with another guy (though have never met them in real life) Hubby cheats and in some of them esp when hubby has cheated I get really really angry and I want to scream but I can't.

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Posted 17 October 2007 - 12:25 PM

OMG...i had one of those dreams this morning. Hubby cheated on me and I was ropable. All i remember is packing my bags and tell him that I am leaving and then severly hurting the girl he cheated with....and seeing hubby in absolute tears because of it ph34r.gif

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Posted 19 October 2007 - 07:27 PM

ive had a few of these. had one the other day that i was the one that cheated and he wouldnt even look at me. i woke up in sweats. it made me sick to my tummy when i was telling him bout it the next day...

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Posted 19 June 2008 - 04:44 PM

I never usually used to dream, but I'm dreaming all the time since FH proposed in March, and twice I've dreamt that I have cheated on him. Both times with married men. I told FH and it was so funny, because I felt so guilty. He just paid me out no end. In one of the dreams I had to make a blueberry pie before hand... dont even ask.... tongue.gif
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