Jump to content


Hi Ladies

  • Please log in to reply
13 replies to this topic

#1 vanessa6


    Frequent Poster

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPip
  • 655 posts

Posted 30 July 2007 - 04:38 PM

Hi all,

Well where do I start, I was with my ex for 5 and a half years, engaged for almost two years until I woke up one day and realised I had no feelings for him whatsoever and he was not the one for me. This was the end of March.

Between then and now one of my other ex's was kind of taking advantage of the situation, but that is over now. I am living by myself for the first time and loving it now!. I have had bad times, been on anti-depressants and cried for days over nothing.

I have realised now just how great my friends are and that I would never trade them for the world or take them for granted again.

Now I am in a good place, I do as I please, see my friends as often as I want (ex was very unsocial) and can do whatever I want, whenever I want.

I have now moved into the world of online dating which so far has been fun. Had a very strange experience but it is all fun.

Just thought i would introduce myself and let you guys know a bit about single Vanessa!

#2 MelT


    Part of the Furniture

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 5,207 posts

Posted 30 July 2007 - 04:40 PM

I remember your face! Goodluck with your future you sound like your having fun smile.gif

#3 Daisy Belle

Daisy Belle

    Part of the Furniture

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 6,103 posts

Posted 30 July 2007 - 05:48 PM

Welcome back Vanessa!!

I was thinking the other day that you hadn't been around here for a while.

IPB Image

Happily Ever After
8 December 2007
<a href="http://daisypath.com/"><img src="http://davf.daisypat...om/ZBsmp10.png" width="400" height="80" border="0" alt="Daisypath Anniversary tickers" /></a>

#4 vanessa6


    Frequent Poster

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPip
  • 655 posts

Posted 30 July 2007 - 08:02 PM

Thanks guys, I am so glad people remember me. I only just got the internet on here after organising 60 million other things so I will be on more regularly now!

#5 WhiteBlossoms


    Fingers Tightly Crossed

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 8,714 posts

Posted 30 July 2007 - 08:06 PM

Welcome back smile.gif

#6 Keir


    Part of the Furniture

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 12,233 posts

Posted 30 July 2007 - 09:10 PM

Vanessa, I have been wondering where you've been!
Sorry to hear about your relationship, but sounds like you made the right decision.
Good to have you back!

#7 *Ali*


    Loving life

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 4,636 posts

Posted 31 July 2007 - 01:41 PM

Hi Vanessa

Welcome to the world of single-dom! It's a fantastic place to be.
I'm glad you're doing well. Come and join our singles thread. The more the merrier!
Someday everything will all make perfect sense... So for now laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason...

#8 toffee


    Lifes Good!

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 6,001 posts

Posted 02 August 2007 - 03:26 PM

QUOTE(MelT @ Jul 30 2007, 04:40 PM) View Post

I remember your face!

Me too - i remember your avatar now. Welcome back hun, glad to hear things are going so well for you now smile.gif

#9 vanessa6


    Frequent Poster

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPip
  • 655 posts

Posted 04 August 2007 - 12:21 AM

I am just trying to get my head around who is now married, who has had babies, who is expecting babies...far too much reading, I guess that is what happens after 5 months!

#10 Melanie79


    Part of the Furniture

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 3,065 posts

Posted 04 August 2007 - 01:06 PM

OMG! Thank god you are ok! I was really worried about you when you dissappeared from i-do land! I am so happy to see your face, but sorry to hear about what has happened to you over the past few months. Best to make that decision now rather than later. So happy you are back, you were missed!

#11 **SuzieP**


    i-do Addict

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 2,265 posts

Posted 24 August 2007 - 03:44 PM

Fingers crossed that you're meeting some good looking sorts online. Its a great place to start just to meet people again.

Never underestimate the power of friendship! Friends are a wonderful thing and im happy you've got a great support network around you

Suzie and Tomy

21st April 2007

<a href="http://pregnancy.bab...gaga.com/"><img src="http://tickers.baby-...ev101pps__.png" alt="pregnancy" border="0" /></a>

Our wish came true 18th March 2010 - Jason arrived and completed our lives.

IPB Image

#12 **Vanessa**



  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPip
  • 1,752 posts

Posted 31 July 2012 - 11:45 PM

Still single hahaha.

Revisiting old threads is great!
IPB Image
Abbey, doing things her way since 29-10-09
Stand up for what you believe in, even if you're standing alone

#13 Monica


    Part of the Furniture

  • avid user
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • 5,128 posts

Posted 01 August 2012 - 12:44 AM

Definitely prefer you blonde!
<a href="http://lilypie.com/"><img src="http://lb5f.lilypie....om/511Hp10.png" width="400" height="80" border="0" alt="Lilypie Fifth Birthday tickers" /></a>

#14 StaceyR



  • frequent poster
  • PipPip
  • 141 posts

Posted 04 June 2014 - 05:02 AM

Welcome back! Glad everything is working out for you. smile.gif

0 user(s) are reading this topic

0 members, 0 guests, 0 anonymous users