Posted 22 June 2007 - 07:16 PM
Yesterday my mum told me she wants to invite another one of her friends. Our guest list is already over so i said we would have to see if we get any declines to the wedding before we can add her on.
Then she added that If she happens to meet someone (i.e. a male partner), between now and then(we have 11 weeks till the wedding) she would bring him along too!!!! What the!!!!!
Now she is angry at me because i said that she couldnt do that. For starters i dont want a complete stranger at my wedding, and she did this kinda thing at my cousins wedding.
She took this guy as her date and rambled on bout how great he was then on the night she ended up trying to visit everyone elses table because he was driving her nuts!
I just dont want that crap at our wedding.
At the end of the day- i think im upset and dont want this to happen as when she has a new partner-she doesnt act like herself,and more than anything i just want my mum to be my mum on the most important and special day of my life.....
Not trying to compete with my dad.
Sorry for the ramble-just need to see if im being unreasonable or just a b#%ch!
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Posted 22 June 2007 - 10:16 PM
Hope it all works out and she gets over it before the big day
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Posted 23 June 2007 - 10:30 AM
i am having the same thing but only its my sister who thinks that if she meets someone in the next 5 weeks til the wedding....then she can automatically bring them as she is BM
my mum also wanted every single friend of hers to come along....which was a list of about 20. we allowed the few to come that we actually knew but that wasn't good enough for her.
in the end we politely told her that our list was full and they couldn't come. H2B said if we had more cancellations before final numbers were due, then she could invite them but to her cost as we dont know them from a bar of soap.
sure she cracked the sh*** for a while but then got over it.
stick to your guns...its your wedding after all and you want to be surrounded by the people you know and love
Posted 23 June 2007 - 11:45 AM
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