I would love some opinions/help on how to approach this situation sensitively.
Ok - so the background. My girlfriend and I have toddlers the same age so we went through pregnancy etc together.
We caught up about three months ago and she asked me when we wanted more kids. I told her point blank that we hadn't started trying yet and that we were looking to start TTC in about three months or so - hoping to fall pregnant in 6 months time. This was the truth but we were lazy with monitoring and ended up UTD 2 weeks after I went off the pill.
When I asked her the same question - she told me that they had been trying for 8 months and was quite upset about it. Also, her best friend had fallen pregnant (she also has a toddler the same age us) really easily and whilst she was happy for her of course she couldn't help a feeling of resentment and jealousy (I totally understand this).
I totally appreciate the way she feels but I'm not sure how to tell her so I've been avoiding it. I keep thinking of her feeling awful after I've told her and I can't bring myself to do that to her. As the 12 week mark draws closer I know that something is going to end up on facebook and I don't want her to find out like that but I don't know what to say or how to approach it.
Would love insights from anyone on how they would have wanted to hear it/how they broke the news...anything!