QUOTE(Ishi @ Aug 2 2010, 08:20 PM)
See that's the thing, my DH openly flirts with girls he doesn't know on FB and my friends who are also friends with him can see that and it doesn't look good. What must my friends think?
I've always been very discreate about flirting in an open medium like FB for my DH's sake.
I have known this man for many years, we've never been involved and while it did get a little sexual there for a moment (initiated by him) and by sexual I mean via email I backed right off when I thought it went too far. it's only recently that i've been back in contact with him to tell him about the baby and like a friend he wants to see ultrasound pics and bump pics, but sometimes I feel I should leave the flirting at the door not only in respect for my DH but also in respect for his new wife. he tells me she doesn't care, and if she's like me, then maybe she doesn't but I know my DH hates that I have any contact with this man at all. I'm not willing to give up the friendship but maybe it needs to change...
Ok, I was trying to edit my above post and what I typed got eaten!
Anyway. I guess only you and your DH know what's ok in your relationship and what isn't. For me personally, I would NOT be having a child with man where both of us have open flirtations with other people, but that's just my DH and I, for us that's not ok and neither of us would do that. Especially not where other people could see it, as you said what would your friends think! But you know what, it's your relationship not theirs, and it doesn't really need to be ok with them.
Maybe it is time for the friendship to change, things change, life changes (your life is REALLY about to change with a ickle bubba on the way
I might question DH why he has a problem with this particular man though...?